WITSEC · 2021
Find MeSpice level, tropes & is it dark romance?
Spice 3/5 (Hot) · Darkness 4/5 (Pitch) · 7 trigger warnings flagged
Find Me is book 1 of WITSEC by Ashley N. Rostek. It came out in 2021. Expect why choose and stalker. Spice is open door (3 of 5) and the darkness is pitch dark (4 of 5). We took the warnings from the Trigger Warning Database, a reader-run list. This note is ours. It is not a publisher blurb.
First published: 20 August 2021 (first publication, per Goodreads). Book 1 of WITSEC.
Find Me tropes
On this shelf, Find Me is filed under Why choose / reverse harem and Stalker romance. Each tag opens more books with that trope.
Find Me spice level
Is Find Me dark romance?
Yes, firmly. Find Me scores 4 of 5 on our darkness scale (Pitch).
Spice and darkness are separate scores. More pitch books. How we rate.
Find Me trigger warnings
Book-specific flags taken from the Trigger Warning Database, a reader-run list, grouped by us. See the reader-submitted list.
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WITSEC reading order
Find Me is book 1 of 1 in Ashley N. Rostek's WITSEC series. Start here.
- Book 1 Find Me (this book) · 2021
Order checked against the Goodreads WITSEC series page on 13 October 2026.
Who it's for
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Books like Find Me
Matched on shared tropes, then the closest spice and darkness scores. Other books in the same series are listed above, not here.
- Killer Crescent
Killer Crescent
Leigh Kelsey
Spice ●●●○○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Why choose / reverse harem, Stalker romance
- Hunt Me Darling
Hunt Me Darling
Maree Rose
Spice ●●●●○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Why choose / reverse harem, Stalker romance
- Haunted
Haunted
C. M. Stunich
Spice ●●●●○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Why choose / reverse harem, Stalker romance
- The Stalking Dead
The Stalking Dead
Eva Chase
Spice ●●●●○Dark ●●●○○
Shared: Why choose / reverse harem, Stalker romance
- Amusement
Amusement
Albany Walker
Spice ●●●○○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Stalker romance
- Home
Home
Nikita Parmenter
Spice ●●●○○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Why choose / reverse harem
- Mercy
Mercy
Debra Anastasia
Spice ●●●○○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Stalker romance
- Myers
Myers
Zepphora
Spice ●●●○○Dark ●●●●○
Shared: Stalker romance
Books like Find Me, with a reason for each
Questions readers actually ask
What is the spice level of Find Me?
Find Me spice level is 3 of 5 (Hot). Open door. The scene stays. Darkness is a separate score: 4 of 5 (Pitch).
What are the Find Me trigger warnings?
Graphic: Sexual assault. Moderate: Murder, Stalking, Bullying. Minor: Death, Grief, Trauma. These are book-specific flags reported by readers on the Trigger Warning Database, a reader-run list, grouped by us. The author's own note may list more. Read it before you start.
Is Find Me dark romance?
Yes, firmly. Find Me scores 4 of 5 on our darkness scale (Pitch). Bleak on purpose. Comfort is not the job.
What tropes are in Find Me?
On this shelf Find Me is filed under Why choose / reverse harem and Stalker romance.
Who is Find Me for?
For a reader who wants more than one love interest and no choosing. Spice is hot. Darkness is pitch. Read the warnings on this page before you start.
What are some books like Find Me?
Matched on shared tropes and similar spice and darkness: Killer Crescent by Leigh Kelsey; Hunt Me Darling by Maree Rose; Haunted by C. M. Stunich; The Stalking Dead by Eva Chase; Amusement by Albany Walker; Home by Nikita Parmenter. More read-alikes, each with a reason, are on zademasked.com/like/find-me.
Is Find Me a standalone?
No. Find Me is book 1 of 1 in the WITSEC series by Ashley N. Rostek.
What order should I read the WITSEC series in?
1. Find Me.
How many books are in the WITSEC series?
The WITSEC series by Ashley N. Rostek has 1 main book.
What is the Find Me age rating?
We'd say 18+. Spice sits at 3/5 (hot) and darkness at 4/5 (pitch). That's our recommendation, not an official rating, so read the trigger warnings as well.
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